BDSM Mentoring
キンクのメンタリング

Important Notice Regarding COVID-19

Due to the ongoing COVID-19 crisis, I am not accepting in-person appointments at this time. However, I invite you to: ▸ Check out my erotic art gallery ▸ Read some of my blog entries ▸ Make a virtual services appointment Stay healthy, everyone!

Be sure also to check out the safety page!

Whether you’re just curious, a shy beginner, or an advanced player, I offer BDSM mentoring for all levels. My areas of expertise are explained in detail on the kink glossary page.

Messy	Fancy a warm piss shower? How would it feel to wet one’s pants in public?
Prostate	The ultimate in prostate massage is fisting.
Punish	Naughty subs get spanked, flogged, hot waxed, CBT’ed, slapped, or punched.
Restrain	Tied up and vulnerable: bondage and shibari.
Roleplay	Daddy, Boss, Teacher? Or just accept your role as a pig who deserves nothing but humiliation.
Sensory	Play with your sensory perception via sensory deprivation or piercing.

One of the things about BDSM that appeals to people is its similarity to firewalking, skydiving, or bungee jumping. With proper training, one can savor a thrill—physical or even emotional or spiritual—in a safe environment that is not always available in vanilla play. As a Dom and BDSM instructor, my goal is not only to educate you, but to give you the opportunity in a safe and accepting environment to free your mind to discover and experiment, without shame or judgment. I often joke:

If dumping strawberry ice cream on your head while dressed as Wonder Woman and listening to “The Barber of Seville” gets you hot and bothered, more power to you!

The most common complaints I hear from my clients who are exploring their kinks are that other people with whom they’ve tried kinky activities:

• were in a rush.
• were not gentle.
• did not respect their limits.
• were only interested in their own gratification.

I do not do any of these things. As a mentor, I’m here to teach and enlighten you, and to help you explore and expand your comfort zone at your own pace. I am a gentle and patient teacher who will respect your boundaries, but help you test your limits.

Over a period of time, mutual trust develops which opens the door to more intimate and intense sessions.

I am open-minded and non-judgmental about what two (or more!) consenting adults do or fantasize about, be they straight, gay, bi, male, female, trans, genderqueer, vanilla or kinky, monogamous or open or polyamorous. I do not discriminate on the basis of age (though you must be at least 21 years of age), race, looks, orientation, experience-level, or disability.

Duration ▶	60 mins	90 mins	120 mins	each addtl 30 mins
▼ Offering
Kink Mentoring	$120	$170	$220	$40
some kink mentoring activities may require deposits or material fees
Other Offerings
Intro to Fisting	Five 2-hour sessions, $880 (20% discount when paid in advance)
Pee & Flee	$70, max. 30 mins (deposit required)

Feel free to contact me if there’s something else you’d like to explore. Trust me, I’ve heard it all and am not easily shocked.