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I write a blog on a variety of subjects, mostly sexuality and Japan (often simultaneously), but occasionally other subjects. Below are some of the entries.

The case for shorter guys.

Cleaning rituals for fisting bottoms. (日本語)

The history of two Japanese postwar sex magazines and their contributors.

Are open relationships “cheating”?

A five-part series about my fall 2017 trip to Japan:
1. Fisting in Shinjuku
2. Porn, Porn Everywhere!
3. Going to an Onsen
4. Japanese Bondage
5. Miscellaneous Anecdotes

Piss Play, Part 1 (how and why) and Part 2 (safety) (日本語)

An experiment combining my cyborg fetish with performance art.

Misunderstanding how our bodies react to rape.

Blog Interview Wishlist

▸ performer Akihiro Miwa (美輪 明宏) ▸ performer Peter (ピーター) ▸ publisher Itou Bungaku (文學 伊藤) ▸ someone who has done lip-sewing (giver or receiver or both)

Why you shouldn’t run from the person who candidly discusses his STI history.

Domestic violence: there’s never a good reason. (also see my resources page)

Isn’t BDSM dangerous? It can be, but so can skiing or skydiving, or even masturbating.

How To Be Sexy! (it’s easier than you think)

How to deal with flaky guys online.

You can play a Daddy even if you’re not an actual father; that’s why it’s called role PLAY.

Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, and good looks are no guarantee of quality or class.

How to deal with crabs (a.k.a. lice).

How masculine does one have to be to not be considered “femme”?

Any questions?

Drop me a line!