Reading & Resources
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Information
Sex Myths
Misinformation about sex and sexuality can have long-term unhealthy effects.
BDSM Safety
Never engage in BDSM play without understanding concepts like negotiation, consent, and aftercare.
Kink Glossary
CBT? Fisting? Watersports? Find out what they mean!
Japanese Glossary
Definitions of various Japanese terms, such as
geisha and
kabuki.
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Books and Publications
Dancing Around The Volcano(1997,
Guy Kettelhack)
An unapologetic celebration of gay male sexuality.
BDSM 101(2013,
Rev. Jen aka Jen Miller)
A how-to guide for many types of kink.
With Pleasure: Thoughts on the Nature of Human Sexuality(2002,
Paul R. Abramson and
Steven D. Pinkerton)
An exploration of the significance of pleasure in human sexuality.
The Ethical Slut(1997,
Dossie Easton and
Janet Hardy aka Catherine A. Liszt)
Handbook for those interested in exploring love and sex outside of a monogamous relationship.
The Erotic Traveler(1966,
Sir Richard Burton)
A look into sexual customs in various cultures around the world.
Male Colors: The Construction of Homosexuality in Tokugawa Japan(1995,
Gary P. Leupp)
A history of homosexuality in Tokugawa-era (1603-1868) Japan.
Forbidden Fantasies(1980, Mike Phillips, Barry Shapiro, Mark Joseph)
Photo essay about men dressing in drag, from performers and crossdressers to those who did it for Halloween.
A Guide To America’s Sex Laws(1996,
Richard A. Posner and
Katharine B. Silbaugh)
State-by-state summary of laws regarding adultery, age of consent, prostitution, public nudity, etc.
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Domestic Violence & Crisis Resources
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255
The National Domestic Violence HotlineHelp for Abused and Battered WomenHelp for Abused MenNational Coalition Against Domestic Violence
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SESTA/FOSTA
If you’re wondering why Craigslist shut down its personals section, it’s because on April 11, 2018, SESTA (Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act) and FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act) were signed into law. These laws were created ostensibly to combat sex trafficking, but will do more harm than good, if they do any good at all. Find out about these laws here:
Vox article about how SESTA and FOSTA will affect the internet.
Watts the Safeword video explaining SESTA and FOSTA and their ramifications beyond their purported intents.
Buzzfeed article about how SESTA/FOSTA threatens legal sex workers in Nevada.
Similar article from
The Lingerie Addict regarding how SESTA/FOSTA can impact lingerie companies.
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